I saw this guy....

Let's fast forward a for more years, when I met my husband. I don't know what it was, but the moment I saw him walk unto the church, I knew he was mine. Of course anyone I shared this with thought it was cute and awesome and the youth pastor and his co-teachers even helped convince him to go out with me on a date (back story: he had just been thru a nasty divorce, had two young children and he was 16 years my senior!) So after awhile, we started getting some not nice things said about us from the church congregation. Mostly about our age difference. Most of it I was able to ignore, but some of it hurt, especially when some of my family members chided in. There was even these two older ladies, well older than I was (19) who were literally trying to seduce him from under my nose! One of the ladies approached him after a church service, in front of me no less and told him that "if he ever wanted a real woman that could satisfy him, to give her a call"!!! This was in church people!!! She was offering him SEX in a church. This just blew me away, so of course i was crying and all upset and when my mom came around the corner to see me crying she of course went all protective mother bear on the lady, well the pastor walked up at this point that my mother is talking loudly to the other lady and guess who gets in trouble.....we do. he even threatened to throw us out of the building that day, US..not her. I quickly told the pastor what happened and just dismissed it. Again we were being small people. The other lady actually called my boyfriend at the time and said "she had a hotel room, was all alone and wanted some company, and no one but work knew she was there and no one would ever find out"!! These low lives were my elders in the church trying to entice my boyfriend away from me with SEX!! What the junk people! And there was nothing EVER said to these ladies, ever..!!! We were even brought into the pastors office and had to be asked that we not sit so close in the pews, because it was upsetting some of the members,  that maybe we shouldn't even be able to touch, don't hold hands, no rubbing backs, no leaning together, etc. All PC should be stopped. I mean to hear it, you would think that we were making out in church during service. And trust me, i was doing things by the book, so we were doing no such thing!! I remember that first Christmas we were together, instead of me going all the way home late and coming back to his house early to help set out the things that "SANTA" had brought for the kids, we asked the pastor if we could have his "blessing" for me to sleep over, and to make sure that there was nothing that could be even viewed of as sin, I was going to sleep in the same bed as his mother (who never slept). Of course this was shot down immediately, we were just asking permission to sin and no matter what it gave the appearance of evil. I was so devastated, but that night I drove home at midnight, and was back over at his house at 4am! But I technically didn't spend the night! Ha, take that!